Every gay passive should have at least one straight best friend, this way when his wife or girlfriend is angry, or not in the mood, OR when she decides she doesn't like him anymore, we can "take their place" a few afternoons a month, until (if) he decides to find another woman to fuck with. There would be nothing gay about it, just two friends giving each other what the other needs, and the kissing is just showingva deep thanks for being there in a time of need.